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Q: It’s performance review season and my manager is usually pretty disengaged. How do I get something out of the process this year?
A: A disengaged manager can make performance reviews feel like a box-checking exercise: vague feedback, no preparation, little follow-up. But you can still get something valuable out of the process by changing how you approach it.
Here’s how.
💼 Treat your review like a project.
Don’t wait for your manager to kick things off. If there’s a company form, ask for it early. If not, create your own, including a short summary of your work, results, and a few key questions. Even if your manager barely glances at it, it gives you a framework for leading the conversation — and shows initiative.
🔍 Find your own benchmarks.
If expectations are unclear, look for signals. Who gets praised or promoted on your team? What kind of work earns visibility? What do top performers do differently? These patterns reveal what “good” looks like, even when no one is spelling it out.
🗣️ Ask for calibration, not just feedback.
Generic questions like “How am I doing?” often get generic answers.
Try:
“If someone in this role were exceeding expectations, what would they be doing differently from me?”
Or
“Would you say I’m on track for the next level? If not, what’s missing?”
These questions are harder to dodge, and they invite more specific, useful insight.
🤝 Build your feedback network.
If your manager isn’t giving you what you need, find others who will.
Ask peers, cross-functional partners, or even your manager’s manager for feedback on specific projects or behaviors. You’ll build a fuller, more accurate picture of your impact.
📝 Document everything.
If your manager is inconsistent, protect yourself with notes. After the review, send a short recap: what you discussed, your goals, and what support you need. It’s not just for them; it’s a record you can refer to later if expectations shift or you need to advocate for yourself.
And if the pattern continues?
If your manager’s disengagement is long-term and blocking your growth, think bigger. That might mean finding a mentor elsewhere in the org, exploring internal mobility, or even planning an external move.
A weak manager doesn’t have to stall your development — it just means you’ll need to be more intentional about steering it yourself.
The bottom line: Even if your manager phones it in, your performance review doesn’t have to be a dead end. With the right prep, questions, and follow-through, you can still turn it into a tool for clarity, connection, and career momentum.
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